I was in a restaurant last week eating lunch with a friend when a fellow diner waved at me and called my name as he left the restaurant.
His face was familiar. His smile said, “I know you.” I’m sure I must have had coffee with him recently or share a group membership. But no name came to my mind. “Who is this person?” I thought.
I hoped my face did not betray my cluelessness. I put on a big smile and waved back even though I couldn’t dredge up a name to go with his face. If I had just a moment to converse with him, I could have figured out the mystery.




I was told by church-planter-trainers that it is important to be very intentional about setting the DNA of the new church. Prior to that time I had never really thought about DNA and whether a church had it. But I’ve decided they all do. And once set, there is no changing the DNA.